
A quiz on “How do you seek happiness?” asks this question: “Regardless of what
I am doing, time passes very quickly”. Most days, time passes
quickly. In fact, there doesn’t seem to
be enough hours in the day. I think my busy days make me a happier person. Being
engrossed in my latest project or pursuit ensures less time to worry or
fret. Current projects include
renovating our closet/bathroom and a new business.
I zone out when I'm running. Sometimes I am so lost in the run that I fly right past my street. That is when you
know you are in the zone, when you lose awareness of time, aren’t thinking of
yourself and block out extraneous thoughts.
Other signs are; having intermediate goals, being active (vs passive) and a feeling of effortlessness. Sitting on the couch channel surfing doesn’t
cut it, being in the zone requires some challenge, like John hitting endless wedges close to the pin.
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I think the key to the zone-happiness relationship is not
thinking too much. And not thinking
about yourself at all. Your mind is focused on what you are doing, your only awareness of yourself is in
relation to the activity itself. No encroaching thoughts about what she said to whom,
or what he meant by that.
One step to happiness is engage in activities that cause you to zone out and lose yourself.